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Post by Theophilus on Wed Apr 28, 2010 4:11 am

I ask because is it not dancing that shows the true expressions of how you feel. Through dance you cannot really hide your feelings. Is it not the unspoken word that means more than the spoken word. Is dancing a true expression of self?

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Re: Why Dance?

Post by xshivx on Wed Apr 28, 2010 4:53 am

I wouldn't say it's a true expression of self but it's definatly a part of you, more the performing side. but dancing does help u vibe out some emotions for sure, the same as singing does, but I don't think it has the more personal side of singing actual words you've wirtten and are feeling xxxxxx
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Post by lisan25 on Wed Apr 28, 2010 4:01 pm

I don't dance. At all. Not even waltz. I don't like it, I don't feel like it's a form of self expression for me at all. Dance might be a form of expression for some people, but definitely not all.

For me, it's playing an instrument. Give me a piano and I can convey any emotion I'm feeling at the time no matter the song.

Hmmm, maybe it's music that causes someone to express themselves? Dance usually uses some form of music.
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Re: Why Dance?

Post by Put It Out There Baby on Wed Apr 28, 2010 7:40 pm

Well, dancing has always been an important part of my life. I have danced forever and it's something that my wife and I, my family and friends really enjoy. We dance at home, at parties and out socially at various events and dance clubs and belong to some dance groups.

Since man began, he has always danced. Dances have been used for ritual purposes, for story telling, to worship and praise what ever deities he believed in, to celebrate crops or weather, as part of a mating ritual, for fun, just for so many reasons.

Dancing to me is full of self-expression and creativity. It is personal, it can be social, it can be private, it can be public. In ballroom dancing for instance, even in competitions, where there are rules and certain steps must be performed, every dancer and every couple has their own unique style. All professional dancers adhere to the basics and then build upon them and create their own steps and their own style. Freestyle is the best example of this, but you will see this in every type of dance.

Dancing to me has always been very intimate and romantic. It affirms (and this is not sexist nor meant to be so don't hate me lol) the role of a man and a woman. What I mean by that, is that in dancing, the women follows the man and he leads. Now she has to trust him and he has to be responsible and accountable. In ballroom dancing (cha cha, rumba, tango, waltz quickstep, foxtrot and even in California swing and country two step, etc., the man is always the FRAME and the woman is always the PICTURE in that frame. It is his job to show her off, as it were. She is the centerpiece. That is the basis of all dancing where partners are connected physically. It's beautiful.

Dancing is wonderful exercise. It takes practice and coordination. It takes rhythm and timing. You build an understanding with your partner. It's very subtle, yet very strong. It's the pressure of a hip, the pressure of a hand or an arm, the movement and shifting of weight, the turn of a foot.

Holding a woman in your arms, pinned to your hip and guiding her across and around a dance floor to some romantic music, is the most wonderful connection and expression of love and partnership. It's is very expressive and you communicate physically with no words at all. You are in sync and become and move fluidly as one. It is pure joy and freedom. It lifts your spirit. You can enjoy each other, the music, others aorund you, if oyu are in a social situation and it's damn fun! I can't ell you how many times I have grabbed Sue when I hear a song I like or we are just fooling around, in the yard, in the kitchen or where ever and we dance. I have danced with her on the beach, on piers, in parks, in restaurants, on the street, in the grocery store, lol anywhere the mood strikes me.

It is the coming together and the re-connection and affirmation of your devotion and partnership with one another. It is physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.

It's never about performing (unless you are dancing professionally and then that is a part and only a part of it), it's much to intimate for that. It is very personal and you make the dance your own, you create your style and your signature. You create whatever mood you want- fun, romantic, serious, classy, graceful, sensual, elegant, joyous, whatever you want the dance to be and where ever you want it to go. There are no limits.

And as you can see below, yes-there is even tango in the park! lmao


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Re: Why Dance?

Post by HotParadox on Wed Apr 28, 2010 8:07 pm

Why dance?... is a simple yet complicated question that Theo brings up.

When you think of it, it is primal, as PIOTB pointed out. Even a mother rocking her child, without even realizing it, is a dance of sorts, an instinctual dance. And kids still in diapers dance before they walk. They sway and move and rock about when they hear songs, especially songs they like.

We can dance with a complete stranger and feel a connection; a bond, even if just for the dance, can't be denied. It's a happy feeling that you get when dancing with, almost no matter who, your partner.

Of course, if you are dancing with the one you love the bond is different than that with dancing with a stranger at a wedding, for instance. Nothing sweeter than dancing with your soul-mate and words are not necessary to convey your thoughts. You are expressing your heart through your moves with each other.

I think Lisa brings up an interesting point, too:
"...maybe it's music that causes someone to express themselves? Dance usually uses some form of music."

You can't be sad while eating ice cream, is an old saying. I would say the same is true of dancing!

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Re: Why Dance?

Post by Put It Out There Baby on Wed Apr 28, 2010 8:13 pm

It's funny that you bring up babies and music and dance. All infants, even a few months old, will love music, react to it and move their tiny bodies, arms and legs. I love seeing toddlers dance! lmao I mean the head is bobbing, the feet are stepping, the hips are swaying. They all do this! And, this do this all on their own. Before they can walk they will sit on the couch and hear music and start to couch dance. lol I think dancing and some sort of music is indeed very very primal. Even before there were "real" instruments, man made percussion tools and beat out rhythms and danced and moved to the sounds. It is just something instinctual and it always lifts your spirit and makes you happy. It's incredibly self expressive.

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Post by HotParadox on Wed Apr 28, 2010 8:18 pm

There was a great vid of a toddler dancing...real, not fake computerized digital crap like some of them out there. Let me see if I can dig it up.

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Post by Put It Out There Baby on Wed Apr 28, 2010 8:21 pm

Great! I hope you find it! Tiny children dancing have always cracked me up, warmed my heart and made me smile. The fact that they do this so spontaneously, so unafraid and unabashed, is just wonderful.

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Post by HotParadox on Wed Apr 28, 2010 8:33 pm

Found it! His parents are so filled with joy. I just love this!



Not a huge country fan but this is a decent song.
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Post by lisan25 on Thu Apr 29, 2010 4:45 pm

Put It Out There Baby wrote:ROTFL! Remember the days when it was manly to be charming, suave, a gentleman and debonaire like Cary Grant, David Niven, Fred Astaire, et al. I always liked that. My Dad was that way. Women loved men like that. The bad boy era was never a good thing, really. lol

I married a "bad boy". But I knew that once he was "tamed" he wouldn't be so bad. Plus he's excellent with his kids. Not so much with other peoples kids, but he is such a pushover with his own! Lol, it's funny. I never thought I'd be the "disciplinarian" parent... but my husband just can't do it. I'll put our daughter in time out and he'll be like "Can she come out yet??".

I like my bad boy. Charming and suave gentleman make me uncomfortable. But I have had a lifelong crush on Humphrey Bogart (not sure if he counts, I think he was more of a bad boy lol). How can you not after seeing Casablanca?? And of course, James Dean. My husband and I are torn, when we finally buy a home (once we know his job is settling him in a location for more than a year or two) we don't know whether to do our bedroom with a cabin/outdoorsy type feel or with a classic feel (we both like classic movies).
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Post by HotParadox on Thu Apr 29, 2010 4:56 pm

lisan25 wrote:
I'm slightly worse. It's why I don't dance in public. LOL, my husband is the only man who likes my dancing, but that's just because it makes him laugh. It constitutes of fingers pointing random directions and awkward footwork.

But I don't think this thread can go on without this song...



Not a huge country fan but this is a decent song.
In my own words and to my own kids, I want to say what that song says. The words in it are so important and every kid need to be told something to that effect by his parents no matter what the kid's age. Great song and I had never heard it, tbh, because I don't often listen to country. I'm glad I listened.

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